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      <image:title>Notes - What Somatic Work Is. And What It Isn’t. - Very often, somatic work looks almost ordinary.</image:title>
      <image:caption>It can be noticing that you’re pulling your abdomen in and allowing it to soften. Realizing your jaw has been clenched for hours and letting it release. Feeling your breath deepen by a fraction. Becoming aware that you’ve been holding yourself upright and allowing your weight to rest back into the chair.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>More room to feel without flooding. More choice in how you respond. More trust in the body’s signals.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Notes - Over-Self-Regulation: When Being “Calm” Becomes a Survival Strategy - Over-self-regulation happens when your nervous system has learned that the safest thing you can do is keep yourself small, neutral, contained, and unfelt - especially in relationships. You don’t explode, so people think you’re stable. You don’t collapse, so people think you’re fine. You don’t express your needs, so people think you don’t have any. A survival strategy disguised in virtue. A chronically over-regulated system often looks like: • being “the calm one” even when you’re overwhelmed • numbing instead of soothing • shrinking your reactions to protect others • mistaking flatness for peace • losing access to joy, desire, anger, preference • having no idea what you actually want • saying “it’s okay” when it isn’t A healthy nervous system is not a still pond. It moves. It arcs. It contracts, expands, rises, falls. It has rhythm.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>The touch in Chi Nei Tsang is called “lazy touch”: the guiding hand of the practitioner is fully relaxed and straight (for direct flow of Chi) and the other hand is guiding the pressure.</image:caption>
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